Thursday, July 31, 2014

Hike #4: Bryce's Canyon, Utah (Blogged by Don)


For the past two summers, Ian and I have been working together to complete the requirements for the Boy Scouts of America  Hiking Merit Badge. This merit badge requires the boy to complete five ten-mile hikes. So this week Ian and I finished our 4th ten-mile hike together in Bryce's Canyon, Utah. I first visited this park with my family when I was a child and I remember being absolutely mesmerized by the unique rock formations (called hoodoos) and the color of the rocks and dirt....I know, I just said dirt., but the dirt is amazingly beautiful. During our camping years when our children were younger,  Kelley and I traveled to this park and camped over night; however, Ian admitted that he had no memories of ever being at Bryce's Canyon. Ever since that time I have wanted to come back to this park with my family and visit it again. When Ian and I decided to complete the hiking merit badge, I knew that I wanted one of the ten-mile hikes to be in Bryce's Canyon. Since Bryce's Canyon was quite a drive away from Las Vegas, Ian and I decided to camp near Bryce's Canyon so we could get a good nights rest and begin the hike early the next morning. I had an memorable time camping and hiking with my son Ian......these are memories that I will always cherish.
We arrive in the evening at the campground near Tropic Lake.
 Of course, first thing after setting up the tent, Ian and I walk down to the lake and engage in the beloved activity of rock skipping.
 Tropic Lake at sunset. Time to head back to camp, build a fire, and sit around the fire eating unhealthy food (chips and soda) until you are ready to fall asleep.
  It's morning time!!! Let's pack up and leave so we can start hiking.
 
 One last look at Tropic Lake.
After we drove to the beginning of the hike, Fairyland Point, we got out of the car and walked to the edge of the canyon. It was so exciting to hear Ian gasp as he first looked out over Bryce's Canyon. He was amazed at how big the rock formations (hoodoos) were and how beautiful Bryce's Canyon was.
 Posing just before our hike into the bottom of the canyon.  
 

 You thought I was joking around.....look at the rock formations and the beautiful/colorful dirt.

This area of Bryce's Canyon is called Fairyland because of the rock formations in this picture.  If you look very carefully, one of the rock formations is called the Fairyland Castle (large rock formation located just right of the center of the picture). It looks like a Disney castle....do you see it?

After hiking 4 miles to the bottom of Bryce's Canyon, we reach a rock formation that can only be seen on this hike called the Tower Bridge (over my shoulder on the left of the picture - below is a close up picture). The rock formation  resembles the Tower Bridge in London, England.

 Best time of the day....lunch!!!!
 As Ian and I hike uphill out of the canyon and back to our car, here are some final looks at Bryce's Canyon from the rim above.
 A very tired looking Ian. It was a difficult hike coming out of the canyon, but we both finished and it was awesome!!!!

Wednesday, July 23, 2014

Big Day For Aubrey!

Today was a big day for Aubrey!  She got her braces off!  These last few months have been rough on her!  Having her crazy bands and braces on started to get to her.  When they told her one more month, she almost started crying.  Well, today they are off.  Just in time for EFY!!!  Her orthodontist was wonderful and even had her retainer done for today so she can leave for EFY with it!  Now, you can't really tell she has braces, but she does.  She had clear ones.
This is one of the girls that worked with her.  So sweet!  The water bottle is filled with candy she couldn't eat while she had her braces on.  She followed that perfectly.  (I am being sarcastic!)
She is very happy this process is over!


Friday, July 18, 2014

Two Years And Counting

It's been another four months, and all looks good.  I feel like I have a ton of doctor appointments this month, but it is all to check things out.  So far, everything looks fine.  June 5th came and went.  I tried not to really notice the date.  It has been two years since I have been diagnosed.  Two years ago my life turned upside down.  Here is the strange thing...it seems so long ago.  I am doing good.  My health is great.  No cancer.  I also had one of my last surgeries for reconstruction.  There are some little touch ups I have to have, but I am going to enjoy the holidays and worry about that in the new year!  I feel like I am getting my life back in order and I am so grateful.  A while ago I heard this talk by Linda S. Reeves.  (You can hear the whole talk HERE)  In her talk Sister Reeves spoke of the historic Provo Tabernacle catching on fire in December of 2010 and how the fire left the interior of the building burned. Pointing out that although the Lord did not cause the fire, He allowed the fire to strip the interior, while still keeping the exterior safe so that turning the building into a temple would be possible.
 “My dear sisters, the Lord allows us to be tried and tested, sometimes to our maximum capacity. We have seen the lives of loved ones, and maybe our own, figuratively burned to the ground and have wondered why a loving and caring Heavenly Father would allow such things to happen. But He doesn’t leave us in the ashes; He stands with open arms, eagerly inviting us to come to Him. He is building our lives into magnificent temples where His spirit can dwell eternally.”
The Lord has a plan for every life, and nothing that happens is a shock or surprise to Him, she said. He is all-knowing and all-loving and is eager to help and comfort all who honor their covenants and rely on Him and the power of His Atonement.
“The trials and tribulation that we experience may be the very thing that guide us to come unto Him and cling to our covenants so that we might return to His presence and receive all that the Father hath,” she said.
I can't even express what hearing this talk did for me!  Yes, I am not perfect.  Far from it, but I have learned so much during this trial.  I feel like my relationship with Heavenly Father is closer than ever!  Sure I am not happy with some things, but I am coming to terms with things and just being grateful that I am cancer free.  People always ask us how we got through it or how did we remain so positive during all of it.  Of course we had the gospel in our lives, but we did some other things too. After we were all done with treatment I read this article and I think this explains it.  Things to avoid when you are going through a trial.
Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Yourselves.
Well, there were times I did feel sorry for myself.  I would give myself a day or a hour or two.  Maybe I wasn't too good for with this, but I really tried not to feel sorry for myself and just live life like normal.
Give Away Your Power.
Yes, I was making decisions about my health.  It was also up to me to decide if it was going to be a good day or bad.  Was I going to be sick during treatment or fine?  Was I going to just lay around in bed or get up and live life? Now sometimes, that just wasn't possible, but I did my best.
Shy Away from Change
Hello!!!  Really?  Everything was changing in my life.  You just have to accept it.  Let's see, I had cancer, I had a son come home from a mission, one graduate and go on a mission, kids start high school and junior high, I was team mom for Aubrey's dance team, chemo, and multiple operations!  Change???  Yeah.
Waste Energy on Things You Can’t Control
Oh my gosh, when you have cancer, what can you control?  You can control your attitude, how you treat people, and how you respond to things.
Worry About Pleasing Others
Yes, I had to give up on that.  I just did the best I could.
Dwell on the Past
There are times I wish I could go back in time and I get my old life back.  Then again, I think I am happy with the person I have become going through all of this. 
Resent Other People’s Success
I never did this.  I was happy for other people's successes.
Expect Immediate Results
When you are sick with cancer you can't expect immediate results.  It is a long time to go through everything.  You just need to be patient.
So I think that is how we got through it.  I am sure Don has different ideas.  What are we up to now?  Well, as you can tell, we are enjoying our summer.  It is so nice to have a summer free of treatments.  It was nice to take a long vacation and relax.  I am enjoying every minute of it. I am also training for my first race back after being sick.  Let's see how that goes!  Once again, our family is so blessed!  We are thankful for all of the support and love that we received from family and friends.  We really appreciated it! Let's see how November goes!


 

Sunday, July 13, 2014

Scout Camp - Year II (blogged by Don)

Every year the 12-13 year old boys attend a Boy Scouts of America Scout Camp as part of their Young Men's program. When I was that age, I always looked forward to this week of camping with my friends, playing in the outdoors, and earning merit badges that would help me achieve the highest honor in Boy Scouts: the Eagle Scout Award. Last summer Ian's scout group attended a camp called Camp Raymond located in Northern Arizona near the city of Flagstaff. Ian had a great experience at Scout Camp and did an excellent job attending his classes and earning 6 merit badges. This summer his scout group decided to attend the same camp and Ian had a goal to earn at least 6 merit badges. including two merit badges that were required to achieve the Eagle Scout Award: Swimming and Emergency Preparedness. Since camp last summer, Ian has been talking about earning the Rifle Shooting Merit badge during camp this summer. Now, this merit badge is not an easy one to earn because each boy is required to shoot a 22-rifle with a specific accuracy. I have known boys who have shot for hours and been unable to earn this merit badge.....well, this was not the case for Ian. After shooting for just over 2 hours on the first day of Scout Camp, Ian had already earned the merit badge. He was so proud of himself and I was stunned because I thought we were going to be spending a lot of time at the shooting range throughout the week. Unlike last summer, I did not stay the entire week with Ian because I wanted him to have a little independence from Dad. I was so proud of Ian when he came home from camp and reported to me that once again he had earned 6 merit badges: Swimming, Emergency Preparedness, Rifle Shooting, Leatherwork, Forestry, and Soil/Water Conservation.
 Ian receiving instruction from the Rifle Shooting range master.

 Ian in the process of shooting.


 After shooting each round, Ian had to retrieve his target and show it to these guys who decided if he had demonstrated enough accuracy.

 Ian showing off his awesome targets after a round of shooting.

 Ian has finally earned the merit badge. Notice the bulls eye shot on the upper right hand target.

 One of the favorite camp games was tossing and catching the Frisbee.


 Floating in the cold pool water as part of the Swimming merit badge.

 Look at the awesome craft skills as Ian completes a project for the Leatherwork merit badge.

Ian posing on a overlook of a canyon near the Scout Camp. This was one of my favorite areas to sit when Ian was working on his merit badges.


Saturday, July 12, 2014

The USS Midway 55 years later (blogged by Don)

As kids we knew that when my Dad was younger, he had served in the United States Navy. On bookshelves in our basement, we would look at pictures of the USS Midway aircraft carrier in what appeared to be a yearbook, but we never asked any questions and Dad never talked in detail about his days in the Navy. Last summer when my family was visiting Idaho, I noticed that old yearbook in my Dad's office. I asked him to tell me some details about his service. Dad told me that he had served on the USS Midway aircraft carrier when he first joined the Navy at 18 years old. In 1958-59, he completed a tour of the Pacific ocean that took him to Pearl Harbor in Hawaii, Okinawa, and the Philippines. After the tour, he was assigned to study Nuclear Engineering in a program located near a number of nuclear reactors in the desert west of Idaho Falls, Idaho. It was during this time that my Dad met my Mom one night in Idaho Falls and a romance was begun. After graduating from this program and marrying my mother, he was moved to Boston, Massachusetts, and assigned to serve on the first nuclear powered naval ship....it was a destroyer named the USS Long Beach. He served another long tour on the USS Long Beach in the Atlantic Ocean where he visited a number of ports in Europe. My dad mentioned that this was very unusual to be assigned two different ships and to complete two tours on opposite sides of the world. My Dad also mentioned that while waiting to begin the tour on the USS Long Beach, he was assigned to assist with the building of the USS Bainbridge. This ship was featured in the recent movie: Captain Phillips. After our conversation, I asked my dad if he had any desire to visit the USS Midway which was now a museum floating in the San Diego harbor. When he said "yes", I began putting a plan in motion to bring him to San Diego the next summer....so on June 24, 2014, I flew my Mom and Dad down to San Diego and spent a wonderful day walking the decks and halls of a naval ship that my Dad served on 55 years ago. I apologize for the detailed information and numerous pictures, but this was a very special moment for me learning about parts of my dad's life that I never knew before. 
 The main mast (island) of the USS Midway. The emblems on the sides represents awards the ship earned and enemy planes shot down during times of war (Vietnam/Korea).
 Each naval ship is assigned a number which identifies the ship.
 Kelley and Aubrey are excited to get onto the ship.
We were given headphones to do a self-guided tour, but after a while we put them down and just listened to Dad talk. In fact, other people followed us around just to hear Dad talk about life on an aircraft carrier. 
Walking once again the narrow hallways that Dad walked years ago. These hallways are located under the flight deck where the aircraft were catapulted off the carrier deck into the air. Dad said that when he was in these hallways and an aircraft took off, it was absolutely deafening. You could only communicate to others by yelling as loud as possible.  
 Bunk beds where my dad slept. The sailors with the highest rank were assigned the lowest bunk. Since my father was enlisted (lowest rank) he was given the top bunk. Now my Dad was a tall man, and it was difficult for him to get into the top bunk. He had to grab the pipes above his bunk and literally pull himself up to the top. The bunks were so short that he could never stretch out his legs and he hit his head on the pipes above all of the time. Dad also indicated that he literally slept only 4-5 hours a night because life on a carrier required constant work.
 It was amazing to me that my father slept in a small area like this...look how many beds are crammed into this area!
 The room where the anchor was stored. Dad told us that when the anchors dropped, the chains that Kelley is standing by would fly by at 40-50 mph and the sound was incredible. Sailors who were the youngest were assigned to work in the anchor room because it was so dangerous and loud. Dad said he was glad he never was assigned to be in this room.
 
 Ian is sitting in the room where the pilots sat just before going on a flying mission. Dad never visited these rooms because pilots did not associate with the sailors and sailors were never allowed into these areas of the carrier.
The (brig) jail for disorderly sailors....Aubrey and Ian....really?
 Dad and I posing next to a F4U-Corsair that was used when he was on the USS Midway. This plane also happens to be one of my favorite World War II aircraft. When Dad was on the USS Midway, many propeller -driven/World War II aircraft were being used, along with the newly developed jet aircraft.
 Ian in a flight simulator.
Aubrey has no clue how to fly this aircraft???? 
 On a plastic model of the USS Midway, Dad points out where his sleeping area was located. He was 3 decks down from the flight deck and located just above the fuel tanks for the aircraft. Dad admitted that if even an explosion caused by an accident or in a wartime situation had occurred in this area of the ship, he would have had no chance of surviving because he was above the jet fuel tanks. He also said that his sleeping area smelt strongly of jet fuel all of the time.
 This moment had to be the highlight of the whole Midway experience. My dad had me push him to an exact spot on the carrier flight deck. When we reached the spot, my Dad called for Aubrey and Ian to come over to him. My Dad then pulls out of his pocket a picture of him that was taken in 1958 on the Midway. My children had never seen a picture of their Grandpa at this age and were so excited to see it. My Dad asked them to figure out where he was sitting on the main mast (island) when this picture was taken.....they actually figured it out. Aubrey snapped this picture that means so much to me.....it really was an amazing moment. 
 My Dad pointed out that his job on the carrier was to operate the set of lights that were used to assist in the landing of the aircraft. He pointed out that his "post" was located right behind this aircraft just below the flight deck. He also said that he was an engineer, so when he was not at his assigned post, he ran all over the ship fixing wires and electrical objects. When the ship was at port, he was often selected for MP (Military Police) duty because he was so tall and big. He would go round up disorderly sailors and bring them back to the ship.
 An aircraft on the catapult being ready to be launched. This aircraft was in service during my Dad's time on the carrier.
 Aubrey "messing around" with a figure of a sailor who made this motion when the aircraft were to be launched for take off. It appears that both of them are showing some amazing dance moves!!!
 Ian and I standing on a piece of metal that hangs over the edge of the carrier. After the catapult system launched the aircraft, the system would continue down this piece of metal until the aircraft was clear of the carrier.
 Since San Diego is a major naval base, just across the harbor from the Midway museum we noticed this massive carrier that was docked. It is called the USS Carl Vincent and is a "super carrier" currently being used by the US Navy. This carrier is twice as large as the USS Midway.
Everybody is hanging out on the flight deck watching the ships in the harbor. 
 Ian inside one of the helicopters on display.
 More Ian playing pilot....I laugh how the cockpit dwarfs him.
 The entire group poses in front of an F-4 Phantom. This plane came after Dad's service on the Midway.
 Posing in front of an F-14 Tomcat.....I love this plane and it came many years after Dad's service was over.

Relaxing under the wing of a large bomber plane that was used during Dad's time. This plane was the only plane on the ship that could carry a nuclear weapon. Notice how long and wide the flight deck is....hard to believe that you were on a ship.

My dad wanted to buy this picture of us to remember the day....it truly was a memorable day for me and my family!!!